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ok...im 13 and so is my friend..but she has some..well..problems..heres how it goes..a few weeks ago i saw my best friend that i hadn't seen in 3 years..she ended up staying the night at my house a whole week two weeks later..she told me everything that happened since we had last seen eachother..she told me that she used to cut herself and had an eating disorder and she still did it once and a while..im worried that she might end up harming herself..she told me she had it under control but i dont beleive her..she said that it was addictive and i dont know what to do..i told her that i wouldnt tell no body so im not going to..so please dont tell me to tell someone..if you could send me some websites for her to look at or something like that it would be a LOT of help...or even give me a few things i could say to her..i plan on telling her how i feel next time i see her..but i need something more..help!
Forcing infomation down her throat is NOT going to help her. It will only make her resent your freindship. You haven't seen her in three years. That's a lot of time apart. It isn't like you can act like you are a major part of her life. She knows the dangers of what she is doing and she obviously wants to stop. Just say to her "I know that you going through a lot and I trust that you are trying to better yourself. Just know that I am here to support you and please come to me if you ever need help." Then check up on her every couple of days. Pull her aside and privetely ask her how she's doing. Ask her if she is sure and if she wants to talk. Don't push it too much, but let her know that you care and that you are thinking about her. I'm afraid that this is all you can do. The ultimate decision for her well-being is left to her. You cannot change that, all you can do is offer your support and help if she needs it.
Best of Luck.
Sarah
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Ok..i dont wanna sound like a bitch here but i DO know her that well..i know her better than her own mom does..and just because i havent 'seen' her in three years doesnt mean i havent 'talked' to her in three years..now..excuse me for saying this but i REALLY dont think that your the one to go and judge if im a big part of her life, infact, she might even move in, she knows that i care about her and i know for a FACT that she cares about me..she wouldnt just gop and blab this to a person that isnt a big part of her life now would she??? sorry if i insulted you hun..but you 'kindof' insulted me too!