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Okay, so here's my problem:
I have a friend, and she copies everything I do. I know she's doing this because all of a sudden, she's into EVERYTHING I'm into...and she never used to like everything I liked. Now she's like a mini-me and it's annoying. She even tries to friend all the friends I have on my myspace, and she doesn't even know them! Also, sometimes I think she's trying to outdo me. If I go out and get a CD or something, she'll go out and get the same one plus another one I wanted the next day. I've tried confronting her about this, but all I get as a response is "whatever" or "that's not true!". I'm really fed up with this. I'm afraid to end our friendship though, because she doesn't have many friends anyway. What should I do?
14/f

Awww... She admires you, but if it seriously bugs you then talk to her about it. Don't just bring it up once, sit her down and talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel and also how you think she has changed. Maybe she doesn't even realise wwhat she's doing, maybe she does.

If she continues what she's doing and if you feel it's nesecessary to end your friendship, then fine. Don't feel guilty just because she doesn't have many friends and don't stay her friend just because you feel guilty. It's not fair to either of you.

::Jasmine::

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(Rating: 5) thanx...I'll try talking to her again.

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