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Theres this guy I met on online and he asked me to hang out with him we were already spose to go out one night but he got arrested.I'm ready for a hookup (I'm a virgin) and he loves sex. I told him to call me but he said for me to call him. Is this worth it? I mean if I'm looking for a hookup now? Should I call him?
P.S. Even though we met online, my good friend knows him so I think its okay.
This isn't going to be the answer that you are looking for, but I would say no, he isn't worth it.
The first red flag would be... HE GOT ARRESTED. Is that the kind of guy that you really want to be hanging out with. You know that he will influence you to do things that you shouldn't.
Secondly, you met him online. Maybe your friend knows him, but you haven't ever met him, so you don't know what he's like. People change. A girl at my school this past year got raped by her best friend of ten years. It isn't safe to go off and have sex with random guys. Even if he is a good guy, you have no way of knowing who he has hooked up with or whether he has STDs or not.
Everyone I have ever talked to that has lost their virginity like this has regreted it. It will mean so much more if you wait and have sex with a guy that your dating and you really like. Also, people will have a great deal more respect for you that way.
Really think about this, it isn't a good idea, and the reality is, you are going to regret it. Maybe not now or next year, but at some point, you will. I promise. Think about the rest of your life knowing that your first time was with a criminal that you met on line, and you did it the first time you met him.
Really think about this before you do it, because it will inevitablly lead to problems for you.
Best Wishes.
Sarah
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