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I'm SarahI cheer (it's my life)
I model
I will be attending Yale, Wharton, or Brown in 2010.
I'm not a bad kid.
But i'm definatly not perfect.
I've been through my fair share of delinquency.
so i know how to deal with it.
with that being said...
any questions that aren't "user friendly"
my email is posted on this page.
I don't judge.
and i would love to help you.
so please feel free to drop a question in my inbox.
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My best friend (D) told me not to long ago that she had sex when she was 12, now shes 14. I was shocked and disgusted too, because people always thought she was a whore. My other best friend told me that D told her that it happened more than once. Once in the bed, once in the shower, once on the beach, and once somewhere else, and a couple other times. This was all with her boyfriend (M). M died last year, and he was only 13. Anyway, she didn't tell me it happened all those times,because she knew I'd be even more disapointed I guess. When D told me about the first time, I told her I had lost respect for her. I think she is a whore. One time in class we were counting all the guys she dated, and I was naming random names and she would be like Yup. The total was 17. D turned 14 a few months ago. Would you agree that D is a whore? Also, would it be wrong to stop talking to her, because of that.
Calling someone a whore is very subective. It's all in the eyes of the beholder. I can definatly see how she got that title, but it is HER life and HER body. You can give her your input, but when it comes down to it, she makes the decision. Just because you don't agree with it doesn't mean that she has to think the same way.
The reality of it is, she needs a friend like you that will be a positive influence in her life. Don't drop the friendship because of that. You will realize later on in life that that kind of thinking is hypocritical. Your her best friend, you should be there for her no mater what. It's her life so let her make her own decisions.
Best of Luck,
Sarah
(Rating: 4) Well Im confused again, people agree that she is a whore,but theres many opinions on what I should do. Thank you sarah. :)