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My boyfriend lied to me and said he cheated on me so then i would get mad and dump him and me and him have nown eachother for years, and we have been doing this on off relationship for the past 2 years. the problem is is that i like him alot but yett the only thing he likes to do is hurt me i mean sure hes got a sweet side, and he knows how to play that card very well thats why i keep falling for him. all i wanna do is get over him but he always finds someway to get me back....what should i do?

well two years is a significant amount of time. you will always have feelings for him after dating for that long, but it sounds like you might be better off moving on for good. he sounds like a manipulative guy who doesnt know if he wants you or not, but wants to keep you sidelined until he figures it out. you dont deserve that! focus on going out with your friends and keeping busy. go to parties and try to find new guys to talk to and hang out with. you dont necessarily have to find a new boyfriend, but just hanging out with new people will get your mind off your ex. if he calls you to hang out, call your friends and make plans immediatly. nothing helps me get over a guy than bashing him with my girls. =)

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(Rating: 5) thats a good way of putting it, yea i guess i shouldnt be alone wen im so heartbroken

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