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I broke up with an ass but i cant get over him
My boyfriend lied to me and said he cheated on me so then i would get mad and dump him and me and him have nown eachother for years, and we have been doing this on off relationship for the past 2 years. the problem is is that i like him alot but yett the only thing he likes to do is hurt me i mean sure hes got a sweet side, and he knows how to play that card very well thats why i keep falling for him. all i wanna do is get over him but he always finds someway to get me back....what should i do?
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wow thats a pretty hard thing to go through, considering that youve been with him for so long and he hurt you like that. Just give it time. Ik rite now it seems like you just cant live with out this guy, and the thought of you guys never being together again is pretty scary. But dont worry, ull come to see that he really isnt worth your time or effort if he chooses to be like this. But who knows maybe hell change. I would sujest not going back out with him again though.
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You're just another girl who has an unhealthy attraction to assholes. Don't worry, you're right along there with 99.5% of living females. You can either continue to hopelessly pursue him, and end up getting hurt over and over again, or you break from the mold and go out and try to find someone else. All you're doing right now is making yourself miserable.
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well two years is a significant amount of time. you will always have feelings for him after dating for that long, but it sounds like you might be better off moving on for good. he sounds like a manipulative guy who doesnt know if he wants you or not, but wants to keep you sidelined until he figures it out. you dont deserve that! focus on going out with your friends and keeping busy. go to parties and try to find new guys to talk to and hang out with. you dont necessarily have to find a new boyfriend, but just hanging out with new people will get your mind off your ex. if he calls you to hang out, call your friends and make plans immediatly. nothing helps me get over a guy than bashing him with my girls. =)
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I wish I could say it's easy to get over that asshole, but it's not.
I mean he might be a jerk, but I know sometimes I act weird around people I really like becaue I'm scared to get close.
Now I know that sounds like a total Lifetime movie and I sound like a raging fag, but it's true.
Sometimes I'm distant because I'm afraid to be nice to them not because I want to be mean.
However, if he doesn't treat you with respect, and you find he only calls you if another girl isn't available: get away from him.
You'll just end up being embarassed a few years later and he'll always treat you with disrespect.
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