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I'm Michelle. I'm 17 years old and going to be a senior in high school. I work at Giant full time during the summer- 40 hours a week. I love to have fun, talk, and my boyfriend. Asssk me anything!

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mondays were fun , food didn`t make you Fat -
girls didn`t cause Drama, boys werent so confusing
nothing was regrettable , friendships didn`t fade*
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okay..this is long so pleasee bear with me. i met this guy on may 19th..at a lockin and then we left in the mrning..soo may20th..then that night i got on the computer and started messaging him over myspace and i already had his number so i gave him mine and we started texting nonstop..then may21st..he asked me out, of course i said yes bc i liked him alot! he seemed so perfect at first and everything..then on friday..the 25th. he broke up with me and was like ilike you alot but well never be able to see eachother..and he lives 45 mintues away so, yeah, hes right.. well then that ngiht i was at my friends house and he texted me and was like will you lie for me im like about what hes like to this girl bc iwas talking to her while i was going out with u and shes mad that i didnt tell her i going out with u..he wanted me to say i never went out with him..but that i didnt do..bc he got himself in this mess i am not getting him out..anyways he went out with the girl then like a week later we were talking online and he apologized for basically cheating on me and everything and said he meant it..then that weekend he went to a festival with the girl and he did something stupid and she broke up with him..then that week we juss started talking again and he told me he knew it was a mistake when he broke up with m,e and he actually cried and he has never cried over a girl before..he asked for one more chance and i said okay..but if you blow it yuour done. i care tyhat he chjeated on me but he said he wont do it again..and yeah. im like watching him pretty well making sure he isnt talk to anyother girls..i talk to him friends and they say hes juss with me and there postivive and shit..is it bad that i dont trust him that well..im starting to trust him again its just hard..i dunno..? juss anything you can say about this please help cause im so confused..

I know how you feel!! My boyfriend cheated on me after 5 months, after 8 he was talking to another girl and broke up with me for her, and on what would have been our 9 month anniversary he called me and appologized for everything and called her and told her he cant talk to her anymore! I love him so i took him back but i majorly had trust issues. I always had to know where he was and everything...but now that time has passed I have realized that i CAN trust him. It's going to take time, i mean he hurt you and you don't want it to happen again. Just keep an eye on him and give it time. It might take like 2 months but as long as you're happy with him, stay with him. And if he DOES do someting bad to you, remember that you don't want to be with someone that keeps hurting you so much.
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Michelle

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