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Okay. I kind of need a quick reply, please...

My best friend went out with a boy (we'll call him Shawn) for 7 months. She was head over heels for him. But then while she was on vacation he called and broke up with her through a VOICE MAIL.

Well, her best friend (we'll call him Mike) was there for her through it all. Now, being a bystander in this, I could tell mike had feelings for her. And recently he asked her out. Mike and Shawn were best friends...and as soon as shawn found out he began calling my friend wanting her back. It's been 4 months since they broke up, and I think he just doesnt want her with Mike...what should she do?

i totally know the type of guy... ive dated them. the reality is that he probably doesnt respect her or any other girl, i mean he did break up with her through a VOICE MAIL. shawn doesnt care about her, hes just realizing now that his best friend wants her that maybe she was a good girl that he should have kept around. she deserves better than that. Mike was there for her through all of it and if she likes him, thats who she should be with. This other jerk is obviously just possessive. they look at girls as a challenge and not actual people that they could have a relationship with. please tell her not to go running back to shawn for me, because that would just be feeding to the egotystical ways of dumb guys. she needs to go for the one that will treat her right.

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(Rating: 5) thanks!!! I totally agree with you, i will let her read this. Thnx again!

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