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my name's rebecca. i doubt you're even mildly interested in the irrelevant aspects of my life, so i'll get to the point. i'm not a professional psychologist nor do i pretend to be, yet i'll try to give you advice based on the common sense that, unlike many others on here, i own ;]
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My mom is kind of weird in my opinion. First of all she judges my friends a lot and I dont like it at all! Second she si always giving me advice on my period. Im 13 and I never had it. Shes always telling me "oh its going happen soon i can feel it!" and she asks "do your breasts get tender?" and stuff and I dont like it! If I tell her to stop, she will ground me and say that I was trying to boss her around. Can someone PLEASE help me?! Thank you so much!
My mom's the same way-- she's always judging my friends, and even though she's right sometimes, it gets extremely annoying; she doesn't have the right to do that. What you should do is, the next time she says something about "Jane" or whoever, casually say "Yknow, Jane's a really good friend of mine,". She should get the message that you don't like hearing stuff about Jane.
With the period advice, she's probably trying to connect with you more and make sure youre comfortable talking with her about it. I know it gets annoying though. Next time, try saying something like "Oh, well, I hope it's not coming soon... I don't think it will," and just change the subject. Good luck :)
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