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14/f
okay there's this guy (17/m) ive liked for a while now, and all the time he's been giving me signs that he likes me more than a friend and i got scared off and he keeps giving me signals but i dont reply because i always felt shy so i tried to keep myself from liking him..and now i heard a lot of girls asked him to prom (he didnt go with any of them and decided not to go to it) and a lot of girls are flirting with him and its NOW that i realized i do like him a lot (it's like infatuation fueled by jealousy trust me, i know how bad that sounds) and now im panicking BECAUSE WHAT IF HE DOESNT LIKE ME ANYMORE? and it's the end of the school year and i want to ask him out and that will look so ..bad, i know. omgg.
i need advice. support. SOMETHING.
and do you think he'll think bad of me for asking him out on the last day of school?
I think you should ask him out. You could also talk to him before that & say that you messed up & didn't realize you liked him until he was missing. It happens all the time. He might be over you, & you have to understand but that doesnt mean you will never have a chance to be with him again. He won't feel bad about you asking him out on the last day of school, personally i think thats a good way to kick off the summer. Good luck 8D
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