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oh my god i messed up
14/f
okay there's this guy (17/m) ive liked for a while now, and all the time he's been giving me signs that he likes me more than a friend and i got scared off and he keeps giving me signals but i dont reply because i always felt shy so i tried to keep myself from liking him..and now i heard a lot of girls asked him to prom (he didnt go with any of them and decided not to go to it) and a lot of girls are flirting with him and its NOW that i realized i do like him a lot (it's like infatuation fueled by jealousy trust me, i know how bad that sounds) and now im panicking BECAUSE WHAT IF HE DOESNT LIKE ME ANYMORE? and it's the end of the school year and i want to ask him out and that will look so ..bad, i know. omgg.
i need advice. support. SOMETHING.
and do you think he'll think bad of me for asking him out on the last day of school?
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Why on earth would he think badly of you for asking him out the last day of school? I think it's a great alternative to waiting out the entire summer, wondering but never acting on it. If you're worried about him not liking you, be casual about the date, don't make it a big deal. Ask him if he wants to walk around the neighbourhood with you or something of that drift, get to know him casually at first as opposed to having to know exactly how you feel about each other on the first date.
And as for sounding bad, a lot of the time it takes the threat of something being taken away from us to realize what we have. Ask him out now lol! You've waited long enough =]
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I think you should ask him out. You could also talk to him before that & say that you messed up & didn't realize you liked him until he was missing. It happens all the time. He might be over you, & you have to understand but that doesnt mean you will never have a chance to be with him again. He won't feel bad about you asking him out on the last day of school, personally i think thats a good way to kick off the summer. Good luck 8D
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Well, he didnt go with those girls to prom, so there is a chance that he still likes you! I'd say go for it. Summer relationships can be fun (no restrictions like school, homework, etc). I dont think he'll think bad of you for asking him out on the last day of school. A lot of people start relationships at the end of the school year, it is perfectly normal. Good luck with him!
-Charleigh
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