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Hey,
I'm 16, and I live in England where the legal age for sex is 16. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 20 months now, and he is also 16. Physically, we take things quite slow - for example we were together for nearly two months because we had our first proper kiss (was my first lol)
Anyway, we've only ever made out and 'explored' with our hands if you know what I mean, and last Saturday he suggested going further....oral sex.
I'm comfortable with it, I'm just wondering whether you think its too young to be doing that, or if I should wait longer etc as I have read through some of your advice and I respect your opinion- its realistic.
I know that he's never done anything sexual with anyone except from me, so there's no need to worry about STI's or whatever, and we are in a good, loving relationship. He's a great guy and I want to do this, and I want to get closer to him.
What do you think?

I don't think this is wrong at all. If you both feel ready for it, then it shouldn't feel wrong. It's nice to hear that people are actually taking things slow in a relationship. If you need some help knowing about oral sex go to www.sextutor.com

And you're not too young, considering the fact that kids have sex in the 6th grade now. Which I feel is totally wrong. Good luck and hope I helped !

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