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ok, I know I'm a horrible person.. but I need your help. so, I am 15, and I have a boyfriend. I've been his girlfriend for 2 weeks and one day.. since then, we've hung out ONCE, and he call me ONCE, we've never kissed, we don't hold hands, but we do hug. He's never called me pretty, or complemented me in any way like that. I almost feel like I'm just a friend.
Then there is this other boy, who I hang out with almost every weekend, and we've been hanging out at lunch, in the library. He calls me every night right before we go to bed. He calls me beautiful, and cute all the time. He just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and I think he wants me to break up with my boyfriend.
I feel like my actual boyfriend is less of one than the other boy. I don't like my boyfriend as much as before, and I do like the other one, and he likes me back. The problem is, I'm going to feel bad if I dump him. I am his first girlfriend, and it only has been about 2 weeks. I don't know what to do, stay with him or break up?
Please help thanks
Never feel bad about breaking up with someone if your reasons are true. You don't like the guy your going out with as much as the other guy and that's not your fault. It would hurt him more to know that you stayed with him just becuase you felt bad. Follow your heart and do what makes you happy. You boyfriend now will find another girl and be happy also.
(Rating: 5) you are right,t he longer i drag it out the more he'll get hurt. thanks.