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ok, I know I'm a horrible person.. but I need your help. so, I am 15, and I have a boyfriend. I've been his girlfriend for 2 weeks and one day.. since then, we've hung out ONCE, and he call me ONCE, we've never kissed, we don't hold hands, but we do hug. He's never called me pretty, or complemented me in any way like that. I almost feel like I'm just a friend.
Then there is this other boy, who I hang out with almost every weekend, and we've been hanging out at lunch, in the library. He calls me every night right before we go to bed. He calls me beautiful, and cute all the time. He just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and I think he wants me to break up with my boyfriend.
I feel like my actual boyfriend is less of one than the other boy. I don't like my boyfriend as much as before, and I do like the other one, and he likes me back. The problem is, I'm going to feel bad if I dump him. I am his first girlfriend, and it only has been about 2 weeks. I don't know what to do, stay with him or break up?
Please help thanks
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You're not a horrible person, just young and confused. You've only been dating your boyfriend for a short period of time, and considering you're his first girlfriend he may be unsure of how to act and what to say. Before you break up with him, discuss with him what is going on, maybe he thinks you're beautiful, and wants to say it, but is scared to. If things don't work out between you two and you wish to pursue a relationship with this other young man, then be polite and tell your boyfriend that you would prefer to be friends.
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if you dont really like your boyfriend all your doing is being unfair to him. just break up with him. its not that hard. just do it in a nice way. just tell him you would rather be friends.
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First off, your not a horrible person.By all means, your normal.I understand why your feeling guilty,But if you don't like your boyfriend, why stay with him any longer than you should.I mean..I don't think you should stay with someone you don't have any intention being with.I think it's better if you do it now than later because you'd hurt him worse if you let it go longer than it should be.You shouldn't feel bad for him.He will indeed find someone else.I say you should break up with the boyfriend.. wait a little.Show a little respect and get into a relationship with the other guy.Hope I helped and if you want anymore help..ask! :]
♥ L a c e y
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Why should you think of yourself as a horrible person because you seek happiness?
Your boyfriend may not know exactly how he is supposed to act, since you are his first girlfriend, but you are by no means tied down to the boy.
If you don't like him, move on. No need to feel guilty about that.
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Never feel bad about breaking up with someone if your reasons are true. You don't like the guy your going out with as much as the other guy and that's not your fault. It would hurt him more to know that you stayed with him just becuase you felt bad. Follow your heart and do what makes you happy. You boyfriend now will find another girl and be happy also.
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hmmm, well i think you should talk to your actual boyfriend and see whats going on, because he might just be nervous and not sure what to do. once he gets over that, you guys might be fine. but if he still doesn't make any effort to get close, or even be NICE, then dump him. DON:T feel bad about it at all! ok? it's better to dump him now than to wait and dump him later. it seems like you would be much happier with the other guy, you deserve him
goodluck! <3
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