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Q: Well,.. kissing sucks.


Really, why wasn't I warned? I have waited my whole life for that moment, I have been nervous and excited and spent so many classes ignoring the teacher and dreaming about it - and it sucks. Not because he was a bad kisser, just cause.. well its nothing special. It's SO OVERRATED! Like, really, am I the only one who feels this way? In movies it looks amazing - time stands still, sparks fly, it's impossible to breathe - but noooo. Not at all.

Why'd I waste so long waiting for that kiss? I turned down lots of great guys cause I wanted my first kiss to be REALLY SPECIAL. But itwasn't. I'm so dissapointed.

Does it get better? Or is it really not that great and people just make it sound great cause they're in love?
Sadly, most first kisses suck. Mine did, the guy tried to like, eat my face off, and it was in the weight room.
I mean come on. =P
No, but seriously it took me three "actual"/long term boyfriends to find one that kissed well enough to make my knees go weak and my heart skip a beat.
You'll find that guy, and when you do, you won't think kissing is so overrated.
Or maybe you will, and kissing just won't be your favorite aspect of relationships. It happens...but I personally think you just haven't found a good kisser yet.
PS: Sax players and trumpet players are good kissers, I've found...;)(and one singer that just happens to know what he's doing)
Good luck!
-Siren =)


[Edit]: Good to know I was missed! Better to know I actually helped you. ^_^ Yeah, things are going all right. My life got a bit more complicated since I disappeared, but if you'd like to chat, feel free to IM me - my screen name's SirenCytherea on AIM. =)

HEEEY =D You're back! An you answered one of my questions! I can't believe it, you used to be my favorite advicenator, you helped me out lots of times with several different problems - and then one day you just dissappeared! How's life been? STill the same hot boyfriend? I remember you were a singer too, a little girl with a big voice - I hope that went well! =D Thanks for your advice!

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Siren_Cytherea
I'm a laid-back 26 year old with a Psychology BA, starting my MA program, and working my way into the field as quickly as I can. It took me an extra Bachelor's degree (in vocal performance and creative writing) to figure it out, but I was put on this Earth to help, to heal, and to love.

I have made the decision to dedicate my life and career to helping others. I am here to do just that.

I've been a member since 2004, and since I signed up, I've gone through quite a lot and learned quite a lot from it. I'm here to give guidance where I had none; no one should have to go through the difficulties I went through alone.

Feel free to visit my website/blog, if you want to read my experience with domestic violence and my thoughts on it.

***While I do tend to answer mental health and other health-related or medicine-related questions, I am by NO MEANS a licensed physician or practitioner of any sort. Any and all advice I give for these questions is from my own experience or studies.***

If you need to get a hold of me quickly, my screen name on AIM is SirenCytherea. Just let me know you found me here.

I'm a strong believer in the idea that there are no stupid questions except the ones left unasked, so, please, keep an open mind, heart, and mouth.

Siren

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