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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

-Volleyball2150



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okey, i like this guy, lets call him J and lets call me M and we used to be friends and flirt ALOT. but lately we havent talked to each other. I see him alot in the halls and at gym after school, but its just really awekward between us. I think that he knows that i like him bc, somebody who knows, went up to J and said, "I know someone who likes you!!" and then J is like, " Ya, i know its M." So i know that i like him. He told my friend that he thought i was pretty, but idk if he really means it because my friend might have been pressuring him into saying that. he also said that i was a really good friend, but idk. i have his screenname, but he doesnt know that i have one, so i cant just start talking to him, bc then he will think that im like a stalker for having it, but my friend just gave it to me, knowing that i like him. ahhh i really dont know what to do, sorry this is really long. but i dont really want to talk to him in person, because i never get a chance too, and i dont wanna tell my friend to talk to him for me, because thats just lame. im really in need of some help. so if anyone has some answers that would help!! thx in advance

If i were you, I would talk to him on AIM. That is soo much better than having a friend talk to him for you (making you look really shy) or you just going up to him and talking to him.

He's not going to think you're a stalker as long as you don't sound like one.

this sounds like a stalker

"HEEY!! Wazz up? how are you? " etc,

this doesn't sound like a stalker

"Hi J, this is M. I got your sn from ___ hope thats ok. 1 question... what was the HW from Science."

or whatever...

yeah so just sound like a casual conversation like you would face to face.

if you want, you can even say "___ told me to ask you ________" so he thinks that the only reason you are talking to him is that your friend wants to know a question.

I hope everything goes OK
-volleyball2150

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(Rating: 5) thanks a ton! im probably going to try the 2 suggestion because it sounds more like me, so thanks so much!

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