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My dad died in febuary and he was a drug addict but really trying to quit before he died, he never wanted me to turn to drugs but I did
And I did before he passed.

and one time I was about to do drugs and I was walking down the hall to the bathroom and my dads ghost appeared and started walking towards me and he gave me this face like kinda sad because he didn't want me to do those things.
I fell on the floor crying my eyes out and I feel so bad about everything and how I still didn't stop after that happened.
Maybe I just didn't know exactly what it meant at the time
Because me and my dad were so close some lady said if he would appear to anyone it would be me and he did.
I've been thinking about this a lot and I just really don't want to disappoint him.
I don't really know what to ask but what do you think of this?

I can sorta relate to this question becuase my dad died too. I think that your dad was probably trying to tell you NOT to do drugs. Use his death as an example to know what happens when you do drugs. if he was still here he would definitly not want you to do them. so dont. they ruin your life as you probably know becuase you saw your dad go through it. just.. DON'T DO DRUGS.

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(Rating: 3) my dad died in a car accident not from drugs.

Rating changed by L2 mod. Not a perfect answer, but I think it was a reasonable assumption from the language of your question that your dad had died because of drug abuse, and it's unfair to rate somebody down because they couldn't read your mind.
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