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my dads ghost.


Question Posted Wednesday May 23 2007, 4:49 pm

My dad died in febuary and he was a drug addict but really trying to quit before he died, he never wanted me to turn to drugs but I did
And I did before he passed.

and one time I was about to do drugs and I was walking down the hall to the bathroom and my dads ghost appeared and started walking towards me and he gave me this face like kinda sad because he didn't want me to do those things.
I fell on the floor crying my eyes out and I feel so bad about everything and how I still didn't stop after that happened.
Maybe I just didn't know exactly what it meant at the time
Because me and my dad were so close some lady said if he would appear to anyone it would be me and he did.
I've been thinking about this a lot and I just really don't want to disappoint him.
I don't really know what to ask but what do you think of this?


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caramella answered Thursday May 24 2007, 7:34 am:
i think that ghosts do exist and your definetly not seeing things,its possible.Your dad fealt what you were about to do,he saw that you were about to make the same mistake he did and end up having the same fait he did so he came for you,DO NOT dissapoint him!!!

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Brandi_S answered Thursday May 24 2007, 12:15 am:
I would say that he appeared to you and gave you the sad face, because he is sad to see you going down the same path he did, which he wanted you to avoid.

I don't know if he died as a result of using drugs, but you know that he never wanted you to to experience the misery of drug addiction as he did, no matter what his cause of death.

I don't really know that he is necessarily disappointed in you, but he is surely sad about your drug use. I do know, as do you, that he doesn't want you to lead the life that he led.

I think if you are still using drugs, you need to take whatever steps you need to take to stop. Then next time he appears to you, you can be glad to see him instead of falling to the floor in tears out of guilt of what you are doing.

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MW8305 answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 9:09 pm:
If you're asking whether or not you saw his ghost... I don't KNOW and neither does anyone else. We all need to remember that there are phenomenon in the universe that we can not explain or rationalize, simply because our perception of reality is limited.

And you know what? I don't think it matters whether or not you actually saw his ghost. The bottom line is that you know how your father felt about drugs. He knew that addiction was dangerous, and he didn't want you to endanger yourself as he did. At the same time, I don't think he would want you to feel guilty either... Or that he felt disappointed in you. Because from what you have said, I can assume that he loved you, and was very proud of you.

I think that if you are going to worry about anything... Worry about doing what your father would have wanted you to do... Quit. If you need help there are million places for you to go. Ask your physician for help.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. ;)

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xgracee8P answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 8:33 pm:
I can sorta relate to this question becuase my dad died too. I think that your dad was probably trying to tell you NOT to do drugs. Use his death as an example to know what happens when you do drugs. if he was still here he would definitly not want you to do them. so dont. they ruin your life as you probably know becuase you saw your dad go through it. just.. DON'T DO DRUGS.

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hollister_lover09 answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 8:32 pm:
i thinky your right. i strongly believe in ghost and everything. i think that he is sad that you are doing drugs, and that you didnt learn through his mistake. Try to stop, if your dad died from drugs, then i strongly believe that is why he gave you a sad look.. well no i take that back, i think thats all why he gave that look.
so do this, if you have the guts.
get a tape recorder, and ask a question, like dad, are you sad b/c im still doing drugs, wait a little bit, then go back and play the tape again. and most likely you WILL hear a response. i really hope you stop and that i helped you<33

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