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Q: well lately 4 of my friends keep saying one of my friends likes me. and yeah

yesterday, i had a conversation with him over going somewhere on friday with others
and he went "man you know what you never come when i go w.e i wont ask you to come anymore" then went "i dont know why im even makin a big deal i just get my hopes up" and i asked'why?'and he said "because i want you there!" and didnt respond back at all after that.

and about 2 weeks ago...one of my friends asked one of my friends who also knows him..if he liked me..and she said no and was smiling and the 2 of us plus 2 other friends all saw that.

then we were all like mmmm yeh that was a lie

i'm not sure what to do?

he pokes me and yeah.
he said he loves tickling me.
i said to myself yeah that was such a dead give away buddy.

and yesterday him and one of my friends were having a tug a war over me and after grabbing my arm he grabbed my waist and pulled me towards him.

and i cant figure out if i like him since i dont spend much time with him to really get to know him.

is it true does he really like me?

By all the hints and gestures, it does seem to me like he likes you. That's great, and probably flattering too, but I guess now's the time to think about how you feel about him. I guess the first thing is to see if you're even attracted to him. If you are, and if you generally like who he is, you might try getting to know him better. See where he's hanging out, make an excuse to talk to him, etc. It definately seems like he likes you, so if you feel the same, you can see where it leads you. But if that's not what you want, or if you don't feel the same way, then you're not obliged to return the hints. Be nice, and remember that in the end the ball is in your court.

Rating: 5

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