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Q: Okay, so I'm 14/f.
My cousin's friend is coming home for the summer, and we've been flirting over myspace. We had a past experience (no sex) that got out of hand. Now, when he comes back, he's expecting sex. I know I can say no, because I'm not even for premarital sex. But, what if he won't take no for answer? I promised him I wouldn't say anything to anyone anymore.
Thanks.
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I know how you feel; there is often a lot of pressure to take things further than you had initially intended. But keep in mind that it's YOUR decision. You are not comfortable having sex yet, and that's perfectly fine..you're still young and have plenty of time. As you say, you don't agree with premarital sex anyway. But really, the point is that you are not ready as of yet. Point blank. If he doesn't respect your decision, the he doesn't respect you...and that is selfish. But just wait and see how things go. Make it clear that you don't want to have sex. That's that, no exceptions. He should respect you, and if he doesn't, he is NOT worth it.
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