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hey, i'm not a very nice person if i get pissed off, but i've gone through a lot in my life so i think that i can give good advice on a lot of things. if anyone isn't sure that they can talk to someone because they don't understand then feel free to IM me on my AIM and i can talk to you, and i don't mind letting you guys know about my past.
*~*shan*~*


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(this is my favorite quote) "as long as you've got one person in the world, you've already betten the odds"



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Im 20 years old, im engaged and getting married this july. and im a virgin. i am TERRIFIED of the thought of having sex. my fiance says he will respect my feelings, but it just really scares me. i dont kno what to do. i love him so much, and the idea of sex, like connecting with someone because you love them so much is nice. but im terrified of the what happens. i know that probably sounds ridiculous to a lot of people, but i could really use some advice.

Thanx

i still remember the first time i had sex, it was a little scary but i did it with someone that i loved and it was ok, not scary at all after things got started. just don't do it until you know you're ready or else you'll regret it, a lot of people that i know regret their first times because they weren't ready or the did it with someone that they didn't feel much for, so as long as you know that you're ready then you'll be ok. you will be happy, and fyi if and when the time comes for you to have sex just take it slow and it'll all be ok



and ps props on getting a man who respects your wishes about sex, you don't find that much very often so you obviously got yourself a good man, i'd say keep him

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, your advice was the best so far. made me feel a lot better. and ur right i do have an amazing man. :) take care!
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