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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

-Volleyball2150



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13/f
right now i'm really stressed between sports, friends, and boys. i can't focus on anything, cause i'm always think about
1)my rude and bitchy friend
2)which sports to do
3)the 2! boys i like

i just feel like crying sometimes
what can i do?! help is appreciated

crying is good! let it all out!

if you keep everything bottled up in you.. you're gonna explode! (not really...)

1. If your friend is being really mean to you, think about what caused you to be mad...
Put yourself in HER shoes and think. Sometimes... you should be the one to say Sorry first.

what would you rather do? Let HER say sorry first, and possibly lose your friendship with her?
OR
you take the first step, say sorry and forget about the stupid fight and keep your special friendship?

2. Which sport to do??
welll.. what are you interested in???

an individual sport?

a team sport?

what are you good at? Do you have good hand-eye coordination?
sometimes you just gotta throw away your To-do list and explore. Go to the gym, shoot some basketball hoops... or dance around... or play tennis. Just play a sport for fun, and then if you REALLY like it... sign up for a team!

3. guys...

sooo you like 2 guys?? join the club!
a lot of girls and guys have liked more than 1 person. Its normal.

do a Pro/Con list about each guy and see who you have more in commen with. Find him one day and just have a casual conversation with him. Keep getting to know him and then one day just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.

hope everything goes A-ok!

-volleyball2150

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