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Q: 14/f

im stuck inbetween two guys, both my age in the same school, both my good good friends. the first one "J", second one "M". Well me and J have went out before in the begining of the school year and things didnt work out because he was never around or could hang out and we broke up. Now he likes me and i like him (or I did) and we kind of have a little thing, also we went to 2nd base and that night he asked me out but i said i couldn't answer (yes stupid thing i regret doing that). so as of now, we are good friends and flirt at times, just i dont know if he likes me like he did before, and i like him a little. now M, we've been good friends and he likes me, but also likes another girl. hes such a great guy in every way and i think i am falling for him, pretty much thats it in a bottle. i am just stuck inbetween these two boys because if i choose one i will be curious about going out with the other one.. yeah im pretty screwed up =/. haha hope you can help, thanks in advance

Im actually kind of iffy with both of these guys.If "J" does the same thing before by not being around alot or couldnt hang out with you (even though you were his girlfriend and shouldve made sometime for you in the first place) but if he is willing to change how he was before and really act like a boyfriend and be around for you then try it out,it seems to me you like "J" more.Now with "M" its not a good idea to try going with him because if he told you he likes another girl too then you would be going out with a guy knowing your not the only one he has his eye on,but then again if he starts to hang out with you and really get to you know better he might forget about the other girl and realize how much your worth it and just souly focus on you.I think you should just go with your gut feeling and go with what your heart thinks is right and do it without any regrets.

♥ danielle