careless-fun's

advice

if your bf of one year physically hurts you..like kicks you in the leg..punches you in stomcach..throws you on the ground..pins you down..grabs you by the jaw..you get the picture..well anyway if that happened to you..and you have been together for a year and nothing like that ever happened..what would you do? would you forgive him? after how long? would you make him get help? i mean..we've all done really dumb stuff before...

17/f
he= 18/m

I am a male myself; and I am telling you that if he did it once, chances are he will do it AGAIN. I know that it is hard to think that your boyfriend that you have been with for quite some time now, would do anything to hurt you,but you MUST accept the fact. So please get out of the relationship before it gets dangerous.
I had a friend that was in a abusive relationship but she never told anybody (including me). But all of the signs were there. She would complain about aches and pains out of no where and how her relaionship was getting a little rocky, etc. I never took the time to realize what was going on until it was to late. One day when they were supposed to be going on a date he shot her 18 times. This isnt a made up story or imagination, this is real life. Shes paralized now but its truely a miracle that she lived. And there isnt a day that goes by that I dont blame myself for what happened to her. I could have told her what Im telling you; and that is, to GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP.
I hope I helped but if not just leave me a message.

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