When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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I am going to be 20 in march and Im a female. I've had a man for 3 years this july. He's in the military so its like im livin two lives. Neways, I went out with my friend and I met this boy. He is so sweet and we hit it off pretty good. I've ended up stayin at his house hangin out, talkin to him, gettin to know him better for the last week or two. I love my boyfriend, but i got feelings for this other one. I dont know if i should tell my boyfriend that we need some space. Should i see what its like with this other guy? Take the chance? Is it true that if i realize i messed up by lettin him go, we will find our way back to eachother again? (link)
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Hey whats up?
First of all, I would like to clarify a point there for you. If you break up with your boyfriend, then there is no way that you would ever get back together again.
Second of all, your boyfriend seems like a fine one and you have been together for 3 years now. I am sure he has a great successful career planned and he's attending military now. Then he's gonna come and you could get married or something. So, I don't mean to sound harsh, but while he's doing all that, maybe you should be playing your role and acting as the faithful woman waiting for her man to come home. I mean.. i am sure that he's thinking about you right now, and thinking of being with you when he comes back, and i am also sure that he is crazy in love with you and cares about you so much. So why go after another guy that your still getting to know him from start , and why go stay at his house and act as if your his girlfriend? Because after all, your not anything to him. You are your boyfriend's girlfriend. I mean.. for heaven sake, what do you know about that guy? What do you know if he's good or bad? Or is it just any guy to be with,so you wouldn't be alone.
LIsten, what your doing is totally wrong, you should be faithful and loyal to your boyfreind and wait for him to come back ,so you could plan how to start a life and family together if your getting married any time soon. Other than that, i will answer some of your questions. Like, ofcourse you shouldn't see what its like to be with this other guy, and ofcourse you shouldn't take the chance or dare tell your boyfriend about anything. Just tell this other guy that you have a boyfriend and that you shouldn't be doing that, then keep things quite and don't tell your boyfriend anything.
And just so you could know, if you had hooked up with this other guy after dumping your boyfriend, you would have probably fought with each other after a week or so, and he would have dumped you. So at the very end, you would have lost someone who is crazy in love with you just to run after someone that you don't even know him or his intentions. So think of what i said, and if you need any other help ,please be free to contact me.
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This is the best advice i got from anyone...thank you so much! ♥
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