When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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okay so there is this guy (lets call him A) then there is this guy who i messed around wit (lets call him B) well A & B are bestfriends and idk if A knos what happend between me and B.. me and A are friends and i wanna tell A that i like him but idk what A will say and i dont want it to ruin are friendship. So should i tell A that i like him if so how should i tell him??also what should i do if he says he doesnt like me?? (link)
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Hey whats up? How are you doin?
First of all, its necessary that i clarify a point for you. You should keep in mind that A&B are best friends, so that even if you DO tell A that you like him, he could tell B and then B could tell him how you messed around with him. And believe it or not, that does happen ,and A would believe him, because that situation happened to me before, and it was really bad.
Second thing ,is that even if you do tell him that you love him, and he responds positively, you could maybe even date afterwards, but in the end, this relationship would probabaly just last a month maximum, and then you would fight for whatever silly reason, and then ,you would have lost the amazing friendship going on between you and him, and you would have lost him as a lover.
So you see, the best thing is the friendship between you, take great advantage of it and hold on to it.Believe me, its the best thing.
Third thing, is to rephrase all what i said, which is ' Don't tell him that you like him, because its gonna ruin completely everything going on between you and him'. Moreover, many fights would take place between you and A and B. So just keep things the way they are, stop messing with B and develop the friendship between you and A, by being really close best friends, and just control your feelings and avoid any trouble. And who knows, maybe one day ,A would tell you that he has feelings for you.
If you need any other help , please be free to contact me.
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