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does he like??
okay so there is this guy (lets call him A) then there is this guy who i messed around wit (lets call him B) well A & B are bestfriends and idk if A knos what happend between me and B.. me and A are friends and i wanna tell A that i like him but idk what A will say and i dont want it to ruin are friendship. So should i tell A that i like him if so how should i tell him??also what should i do if he says he doesnt like me??
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First of all, its necessary that i clarify a point for you. You should keep in mind that A&B are best friends, so that even if you DO tell A that you like him, he could tell B and then B could tell him how you messed around with him. And believe it or not, that does happen ,and A would believe him, because that situation happened to me before, and it was really bad.
Second thing ,is that even if you do tell him that you love him, and he responds positively, you could maybe even date afterwards, but in the end, this relationship would probabaly just last a month maximum, and then you would fight for whatever silly reason, and then ,you would have lost the amazing friendship going on between you and him, and you would have lost him as a lover.
So you see, the best thing is the friendship between you, take great advantage of it and hold on to it.Believe me, its the best thing.
Third thing, is to rephrase all what i said, which is ' Don't tell him that you like him, because its gonna ruin completely everything going on between you and him'. Moreover, many fights would take place between you and A and B. So just keep things the way they are, stop messing with B and develop the friendship between you and A, by being really close best friends, and just control your feelings and avoid any trouble. And who knows, maybe one day ,A would tell you that he has feelings for you.
If you need any other help , please be free to contact me.
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