When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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ok im 13/f and in eighth grade
ok this guy i really like likes me back and he asked me and i said no because im scared to be in a commitment like in grade 6 and 7 i used to hate being single and never was and now i cant even be in a short term relationship with the one guy i wanna be in a relationship with
*sleepiesheep* (link)
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Hey whats up sleepiesheep?
I read your problem as well as the other problem about 'depression'. And i have to admit, that i am really good at giving advice. Because in the previous advice i gave you about depression. I told you that I was sure that there is someone that you like ,and that could be a really good opportunity to take you out of your misery and depression ,and who knows, it could help you give up smoking and drugs and cutting and stuff.
So heres my chance, You definitely should be with this guy. Because first of all, love is present, you guys love and care about one another. Second of all, as i said, that its a great chance to make you feel better and have somone there beside you, and who knows, maybe you would be interested to going back to having sex again and enjoying it. Although i know how it feels, to be waiting for something to happen ,and then when it does , you get so scared and freaked out and you just panic. But i definetely need you to relax. Everything is gonna be just fine. After all, your gonna have a boyfreind, its not like your committing a crime here. On the contrary, its gonna be so much fun and excitement to know that someone loves you and cares about you and protects you and stuff. Besides, your not the only 6th grader or 7th grader to be in a relationship. YOur not weird or unique, everyone does that, and everyone likes someone and hooks up. So give it a try, OR to rephrase that, give yourself a chance to live your childhood and have some fun. Forget about everything else, jesus christ, your only 13, you should be having so much fun, because these days don't come again. So he loves you and asked you out, then go on, whats stopping you? Fear. Sorry, but thats crap.
Think again , and trust me on this. If you need any other help or if you have any inquires, please be free to contact me. Take care.
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