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When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.

What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)

Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)

Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)

We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)

You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)

We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)

Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.

One person can make a difference and every person should try.

The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.

Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)

When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.

Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.

Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)

The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)

Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)

DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'

Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)

The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)

Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)

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Hi, you gave me some advice about having a frind talk to the guy I like for me...

OK so, what if I'm already really good friends with him (I've known him for a year) and I talk to him all the time, and I'm already pretty sure that he like me too? I don't think it's weird for a girl to ask a guy out. But every time I see him, and I even think about asking him, my mouth dries up and my jaw shakes. It doesn't happen when we talk about normak stuff, but then I get the perfect opportunity to ask, and I just come to a complete loss for words. I flirt with him a lot and I think he's flirting with me too, so either he just really, really, can't take a hint, or he's just as scared/nervous as I am.

My friend keeps threatening that if I don't ask him out soon, she'll so it for me. So should I let her? (link)
Hey,
OKay i understand whats going on here and i know what you mean, but umm.. why don't you make the 'asking out' part come from him. I mean, you say that you both are good freinds and you talk alot and you flirt alot and you like him and you think he does too and he's responding in every way you want him too, so what if he really does like you, then why isn't he asking you out? Maybe your right, he's scared about the situation just as you are. So i will tell you about something, you have one of two choices, you can either wait for him to take a step forward and ask you out himself, and god knows when he would get the courage to do so. Or if your 100% sure that he likes you and wouldn't let you down, then ask him out or just let your freind do it for you. I just want to make sure that he wouldn't hurt your feelings or refuse when you ask him out.
So make a choice and think before you act, and if there is anything else you need advice in , please let me know or leave your email in the feedback for further advice personally. Goodluck:)


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