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Re: Asking a Guy Out
Hi, you gave me some advice about having a frind talk to the guy I like for me...
OK so, what if I'm already really good friends with him (I've known him for a year) and I talk to him all the time, and I'm already pretty sure that he like me too? I don't think it's weird for a girl to ask a guy out. But every time I see him, and I even think about asking him, my mouth dries up and my jaw shakes. It doesn't happen when we talk about normak stuff, but then I get the perfect opportunity to ask, and I just come to a complete loss for words. I flirt with him a lot and I think he's flirting with me too, so either he just really, really, can't take a hint, or he's just as scared/nervous as I am.
My friend keeps threatening that if I don't ask him out soon, she'll so it for me. So should I let her?
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Hey,
OKay i understand whats going on here and i know what you mean, but umm.. why don't you make the 'asking out' part come from him. I mean, you say that you both are good freinds and you talk alot and you flirt alot and you like him and you think he does too and he's responding in every way you want him too, so what if he really does like you, then why isn't he asking you out? Maybe your right, he's scared about the situation just as you are. So i will tell you about something, you have one of two choices, you can either wait for him to take a step forward and ask you out himself, and god knows when he would get the courage to do so. Or if your 100% sure that he likes you and wouldn't let you down, then ask him out or just let your freind do it for you. I just want to make sure that he wouldn't hurt your feelings or refuse when you ask him out.
So make a choice and think before you act, and if there is anything else you need advice in , please let me know or leave your email in the feedback for further advice personally. Goodluck:)
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