When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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okay so im 15/f. and i have a b/f of 10 months ..he has this ex who like he used to talk to and she used to try to get him back for like 6 months of our relationship blah blah ..well i confronted her and tolod her to stop tryin to break me nad my b/f up and she started iming me online ..now all she does is talk to me ..she tells me all about her new relationship in skool and ims me all the time ..i dnt wanna be mean and say listen i really dnt like you st all and can't stand u but she is also driving me nuts ..whats do i do?? (link)
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hey,
I read your problem and i understand how totally nuts that could be, but a thought actually crossed my mind while reading your problem. Now you say that she talks about her new relationship and stuff, then that means that she finally met someone who she's happy with and who helped her overcome her love to her ex. And she may have bugged you alot and had been really mean and annoying ,jumping all over your boyfreind for 6 whole months, but you have to admit that this happens to everyone who breaks up with someone who he really loves. She was probably all heart broken and upset about it, thats why she kept bugging you and your boyfreind. But you see, now she found love and she's happy, so now she's trying to make freinds with you and get on your good side, so why not respond. I am not telling you to be her best freind, not even a regular one. I am simply telling you to answer her messages, with a simple word or two. But just answre her and tell her that its good for her that new relationship and that you really hope she's happy.Thats it. Just answer with a couple of words everytime, its completely not a big deal. Ignore her, don't make her something that would drive you that nuts. Its fine really relax.
Now think of what i said ,and if there is any other advice you need, please be free to contact me or email me. Goodluck:)
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that was like the best advice i have ever got on that topic..thank you so0o much
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