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his ex wants to be my friend
okay so im 15/f. and i have a b/f of 10 months ..he has this ex who like he used to talk to and she used to try to get him back for like 6 months of our relationship blah blah ..well i confronted her and tolod her to stop tryin to break me nad my b/f up and she started iming me online ..now all she does is talk to me ..she tells me all about her new relationship in skool and ims me all the time ..i dnt wanna be mean and say listen i really dnt like you st all and can't stand u but she is also driving me nuts ..whats do i do??
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hey,
I read your problem and i understand how totally nuts that could be, but a thought actually crossed my mind while reading your problem. Now you say that she talks about her new relationship and stuff, then that means that she finally met someone who she's happy with and who helped her overcome her love to her ex. And she may have bugged you alot and had been really mean and annoying ,jumping all over your boyfreind for 6 whole months, but you have to admit that this happens to everyone who breaks up with someone who he really loves. She was probably all heart broken and upset about it, thats why she kept bugging you and your boyfreind. But you see, now she found love and she's happy, so now she's trying to make freinds with you and get on your good side, so why not respond. I am not telling you to be her best freind, not even a regular one. I am simply telling you to answer her messages, with a simple word or two. But just answre her and tell her that its good for her that new relationship and that you really hope she's happy.Thats it. Just answer with a couple of words everytime, its completely not a big deal. Ignore her, don't make her something that would drive you that nuts. Its fine really relax.
Now think of what i said ,and if there is any other advice you need, please be free to contact me or email me. Goodluck:)
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