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When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.

What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)

Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)

Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)

We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)

You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)

We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)

Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.

One person can make a difference and every person should try.

The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.

Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)

When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.

Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.

Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)

The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)

Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)

DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'

Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)

The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)

Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)

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Ok, a while back I asked for advice about this guy I love and if I should tell him. I follwed the wonderful advice I was given and told him. When I told him (on msn)he told me, and I quote, "i believe that i may like just to be friends...im not ready to like you…not like im not old enough but…its just……like no one is ready for a relationship…but im just very cautious…like i like to see and outcome in the end and if it is and if it is an outcome that is cloudy to me i dont think im ready unless u show me…" ...
After all this of saying he's not ready, he's still constantly flirting and being all touchy-feely and it confuses me...like with all the hugs and holding...:[ ...and then one time we were talking about my best friend and then he asks "have you told her about 'us' yet?"...like huh?...where does that come from...why the word 'us'...anyways...what does this all mean, im so confused?
thanks in advance ♥ (link)
hey,
Umm.. that all does sound really confusing and messy. But i just have one suggestion, and nothing else would work.Just question him about all this confusing situation, ask him what he considers you as. Ask him about the 'us' he mentioned. Be frank and honest, its your right to know what kind of relationship your leading. Theres nothing wrong if you ask about that. And then if you do, then things will be set straight and you'll know exactly whats going on between you and him. But at the same time, don't make it sound like you want to get into a fight, just be smart and really cool about it, and slip the words in the middle of the conversation, like you are just wondering about it. I hope you get what i mean, just think about it and decide what would work best for you.
If you need any other advice, please be free to contact me or leave your email in the feedback if you wish for further advice peronally. Goodluck:)


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