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He says he's not ready
16/f
Ok, a while back I asked for advice about this guy I love and if I should tell him. I follwed the wonderful advice I was given and told him. When I told him (on msn)he told me, and I quote, "i believe that i may like just to be friends...im not ready to like you…not like im not old enough but…its just……like no one is ready for a relationship…but im just very cautious…like i like to see and outcome in the end and if it is and if it is an outcome that is cloudy to me i dont think im ready unless u show me…" ...
After all this of saying he's not ready, he's still constantly flirting and being all touchy-feely and it confuses me...like with all the hugs and holding...:[ ...and then one time we were talking about my best friend and then he asks "have you told her about 'us' yet?"...like huh?...where does that come from...why the word 'us'...anyways...what does this all mean, im so confused?
thanks in advance ♥
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hey,
Umm.. that all does sound really confusing and messy. But i just have one suggestion, and nothing else would work.Just question him about all this confusing situation, ask him what he considers you as. Ask him about the 'us' he mentioned. Be frank and honest, its your right to know what kind of relationship your leading. Theres nothing wrong if you ask about that. And then if you do, then things will be set straight and you'll know exactly whats going on between you and him. But at the same time, don't make it sound like you want to get into a fight, just be smart and really cool about it, and slip the words in the middle of the conversation, like you are just wondering about it. I hope you get what i mean, just think about it and decide what would work best for you.
If you need any other advice, please be free to contact me or leave your email in the feedback if you wish for further advice peronally. Goodluck:)
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