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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do??i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me.

Lots of people your age haven't had their first boyfriend yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first boyfriend when they're 12; others when they're 16 and some even only have their first boyfriend when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first boyfriend, yet. You're only 13, hun. You have tons of time for boyfriends!


As for you being ugly, I'm sure you're a very beautiful girl. Everyone is beautiful in his or her own way. EVERYONE has something gorgeous about himself or herself. You need to be more confidence about yourself. Don't be down on your looks. So what, you have glasses. A lot of people have glasses and they're still beautiful. And you weight and height doesn't matter one bit. It is what is inside that counts. And I know that not a lot of people know that and a lot of people just judge others on their looks. But I assure you, that one special guy will find you and he'll love you for every single flaw you have. And no matter how ugly you feel, he'll be the one telling you you're beautiful everyday.


But for now, just have fun with your friends and doing things normal teenage girls do. Don't be down on your looks. Be yourself and if people don't like that they don't deserve to be your friend. Don't change for anyone but yourself. Cheer up a little, hun. If you feel like you're beautiful, you ARE beautiful; inside and out.

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