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Q: well this girl and i used to be best friends, with high school and everything we've grown apart. we're still friends btu we're not as close. i'm worried she's going to try and make me get left out of stuff wtih my other friends that we're both friends with. i'm just worried, and i think she's trying to get seperated from me as much as possible for whatever reason. sometimes she acts kind of mean to me. do you have any advice on this?
I was in the same situation as you.Me and my best friend grew apart about the summer before we went into 9th grade.We hung out everyday that summer and i guess we were getting sick of each other so we got into this huge fight and she went with her friends i went with mine.In the middle of the year we started to become closer again and started to talk after school about everything and pretty much our fighting with each other was over.You should talk to your friend and ask her whats up.If she says she needs time apart from you for a little while maybe its a good thing and not such a bad thing.In my opinion,thats what i needed.Try hanging out with people you dont normally hang out with as much and get to know them better,ask them to hang out over the weekend.You can still hang out with the friends you and her are friends.I think you both need some time apart for a little while.Because see with me,when me and my friend became cool with each other again we hung out like every other weekend not everyday like we used too and plus we have more stuff to talk about and we miss each other more lol.So to sum it all up id say,take a little break from each other for now and hang out with your other friends,and then see how your friendship is going later on and if you guys still want to hang out and such.I hope i could help! if you need help with anything else just leave on ein my inbox ;]

♥ danielle

thanks very much

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