When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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Ok, no matter what i'm always the friend or the creep... somehow i'm always one or the other... i mean i give advice on relationships all the time and help other in real life. WHY CAN'T I HELP MYSELF?!?!
Please help me... This is my last hope (link)
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Hey,
I understand what you mean and what you are going through. And i have a point of view there, umm... sometimes there a people who like to help others and give them advice and draw a smile on their faces, but then sometimes we get caught up in helping other people with their lives, and we forget all about ourselves and out own lives.
You have given alot of advice to people and helped them in their relationships,that is something great and very helpful and i am sure that they are so grateful for that. And helping people doesn't make you a creep, because then it would make everyone on this website a creep lol, its something good and i respect you for what you do, and its good to be a freind, you don't always have to date and get into relationship trouble and break up then date then break up, you are just fine the way you are.And if there was someone who liked you and wanted to be with you, then he wouldn't hesitate to do so.
So maybe you got carried away in helping other people that you forgot your own self.So what? Do the opposite, help yourself and live your life and find someone who you love and she'd love you back, and have some fun. And in the same time, you can help other people. Its not a big deal, but a person has to fix his life first before fixing others lives.
Look at me, for example, i wake up everyday from 7 in the morning, and come here on this website to wait for anyone having a hard time or a problem, even if it is the silliest easiest problem, and i give all the advice and help i can give. And i feel so happy when i do that, because i know that i have helped someone and put a smile on his face.
And guess what, i do not have a boyfriend, and i do not have any friends at all. And yet i do not call myself a creep, because when i help people and give them advice, this is more important to me than any freind or boy that i will ever know.
Your helping people, and that means that you are doing something so amazing and great beyond what you can imagine. And its like when people go to sleep crying and feeling like shit, and then you help them and give them advice and make them listen to what they want to hear, and so they wake up the next day, happier than anytime you have ever seen them in.
yOu are a sweet, kind, caring, loving, and a helpful person, and i respect you so much.
So don't let anything stand in your way,and don't let anything stop you from living your own life and drawing a smile on your own face. You have helped alot and you deserve to have a good life of your own. So don't you dare call yourself a creep ,because you are most definitely not.
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thanks so much for your answer, i really appreciate it and i hope someone sees that i am a good person soon... because it's getting extremely lonely...
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