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Q: Okay, so.. I love this guy. I have known him for about 2 years, and when i first met him i really gave him the wrong impression, and i wasnt very nice. then, i showed him the REAL me, but by then, he had a gf already. his gf and me are friends.. and she knows that i like him (shes okay with that). but she always tells me how she thinks hes annoying and rude and stuff and im thinking.. then can you dump him?! Im not suree if he likes her, or if he likes me. when hes with me he always says.. im givin out a free hug.. anyone wanna hug me? and then he says .. my sunburn hurts.. anyone wanna kiss it? and he always makes eye contact with me..
im not sure if he likes me at all tho.
so i have a few questions..
1) do you think he might like me?
2) how can i tell his gf (my friend) that she should really just break up with him?
3) is it okay to flirt with him.. even though shes going out with him?
( by the way they have been going out for like 9 or 10 months).
thanks!

Hmmm...

1. Well, if he says that directly to you, than maybe he does. That might be his way flirting. Guys are very complicating. They have their "ways". ;-)

2. I don't mean to be blunt... but I don't think you should tell her. Put yourself in her position. What if your best friend came up to you and asked you to break up with your boyfriend so they could go out with him??? You wouldn't want to because she's trying to steal your man. Maybe your friend is being nice by telling you she doesn't care but maybe she really does and she doesn't want to tell you so she doesn't start a fight???

3. Maybe you shouldn't flirt with him in FRONT of her... I know it sounds wrong but do it when shes not around...

Or.. for the better, don't do it at all because she IS your friend. I mean, if you didn't like her, THAT WOULD BE A DIFFERENT STORY! ;-)

Well, I hope I helped you in any way. :-)

♥ Kayla