about

My name's Kendal and i'm 17. I've been through quite alot of stuff, from heart breaks, to messed up parents with drug addictions & not being together, to fights with just about anyone about anything. I'm the youngest of 7 children, 4 brothers & now two sisters. In school I use to be the kind of girl who thought they were better then everyone else, and was the popular bitch who played varsity basketball & softball as a freshman. Alot has changed. After my older sister died things sort of started coming into perspective. And i just wanna help ppl out now. If you need anything about anything. I'm here to talk, help, listen, whatever. I dont judge, and i usually can understand where the ppl are coming from. My lifes had alot of ups and downs and i really just wanna help out. I wish i would of known about this site a few years ago! Currently i have a boyfriend, Chad. And i usually hang out w/ him and my friends after school and on the weekends. I'm super social, and i think easy to talk to. So ask me anything! Btw the user name's from the song, from the tv show; 8th and ocean. If anyone was wondering. ha.
MUCH LOVE!

advice

I've heard a lot of words that I can tell are sexual and I figured all of them out but two...
1) What does it mean to be "fingered" (ex:Would I mind if he fingered me)

2)Being hitted on (ex: he was hitting on me)

I've been so confused, thanx

Fingered is when the guy sticks one or more of his fingers up inside you (where you would insert a tampon) & being hit on - is when someone is flirting w/ you, usually means they wanna get w/ you as well.
hopefully the helps & your not as confused now :]

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(Rating: 4) Definetaly not confused!

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