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Hey,

Im 15, and I still have not had a boyfriend, or hooked up with a guy...

it never really bothered me before but lately it has been.

My best friend since 4th grade (who lives in Texas) (I live in Philly) has had alot more experience with guys than me.

It makes me kind-of jealous, and i dont want to be like...behind her if that makes sense?

alot of girls at my school just give in and do any guy that is willing to do them. There's not alot of people who are in an actually relationship.

I hate my school. All the guys are a-holes.

and i have confidence in myself too i model, im sweet, im funny...

im just really shy.

now im just babbling.

To get to the point I dont want to just hook up with some ass hole who doesnt care about me. But.. i dont want to be prude.

Thanks.

-Anna

You don't want to hook up with some asshole? Then DON'T! It doesn't make you a prude--it makes you SMART. You feel a little insecure right now, and that's normal, because you're judging yourself based on the other girls. Don't. This is going to sound awful, but someday you are going to have a career and a loving relationship, and many of these other girls are going to be living in a trailer with five kids and atleast one STD. And let me tell you something--I'm 18. I've been out with one guy, and it was hardly a relationship. I kissed him. It was my only kiss ever. This happened when I was sixteen. There is no law that says you have to have sex, or have any experience with guys, for that matter. Just enjoy your life for what it is. =)

-Lea

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(Rating: 5) ur soo sweet thanks

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