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My friend broke up with her bf just a few hours ago. She wanted him to be in tears, but he was happy. So she got revenge on him, and asked out this guy she knew would say yes! I felt horrible for the ex bf. I really want to call her new bf and tell him to break up with her, but I know that the new bf will tell her what I said and she'll get in a fight with me. I really don't want to fight with her because i'm the type of person who goes crazy when somebody is mad at me! Please tell me what I should do!

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Honestly, you should let it go. My friends make some horrible boy-related choices, but I try not to let it bother me. She is going to do whatever she wants, and it's best to just stay out of it. It's likely that this new relationship will not last very long, so you don't have to worry about this boy getting forced into a marriage with her. And don't feel sorry for the old boyfriend if he was happy about it. Making him happy is not your responsibility, and if he is upset, he'll get over it. You don't have to fight, just accept her and let it go.

-Lea

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