My name is Rae. I live in Colonie. I go to CCHS asa freshman. I'm 14, my birthday is October 7th (( tomorrow from wen im writing this lol )). I help my friends out with advice ALL the time and i'm pretty good at it. I keep an open mind and make sure i give people as many options and opions that i have for them. I'll try to come on here everday, but if i dont i may have computer problems, charging my laptop, working on a website, or currently dealing with my own problems. I want to open up to you guys and relate your problems to mine. I may be young but i have gone through a lot in my life, as well as seen people i'm very close to go through the same problems you are. I'm actually really bad at solving my own problems... which is probably why i'm good at solving other peoples.
There are a lot of useless random info about me and i dont want to bore you anymore haha. but if ya wanna no more e-mail me, IM me, or jus ask a question lol. thanx
x333333 RaE aKa LiL sHoRtY
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Location: Colonie New York
Occupation: Radio Host && Singer/Songwriter
Age: 14
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I'm so confused about my boyfriend, I mean he's the nicest guy, but he's so shy. He's forgetful too so he doesn't call all that often. The only things I seem to focus on about him anymore are his faults. I really do love him but sometimes I just get the feeling that he doesn't know what he's doing. Yet sometimes he does cute things (like grabs my hand which guys don't seem to enjoy) but usually only when were around my friends that are couples (I'm guessing he just copies what they do?) When were alone it's completely different, we talk about everything and nothing yet it still seems awkward; We don't go to the same school so that can account for being a bit awkward around each other since we don't see hangout as often. I want a bond with him like all my friends have where they play fight with each other, talk about their relationship and call each other just to say "Hi"
I don't know how to show him that I'm really into him and want to step it up a bit. Any advice? (link)
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My friend is having a problem like this. And I told her what im gonna tell you. Communication is the MOST IMPORTANT in a relationship. Let him know that you need to hang out more, and that you want what other people have. But a relationship isnt a one way street. Why not start calling him yourself just to say hi. Why dont you FLIRT with him like hes your crush and not your boyfriend. Hit him kiddingly but make sure he knows its ok to hit you back. Look him in the eyes as much as you can, use humility around him, brush your hand against his, and make sure you say his name at least 3 times in a conversation with him. It makes people feel loved and important.
Good Luck Babe
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