My name is Rae. I live in Colonie. I go to CCHS asa freshman. I'm 14, my birthday is October 7th (( tomorrow from wen im writing this lol )). I help my friends out with advice ALL the time and i'm pretty good at it. I keep an open mind and make sure i give people as many options and opions that i have for them. I'll try to come on here everday, but if i dont i may have computer problems, charging my laptop, working on a website, or currently dealing with my own problems. I want to open up to you guys and relate your problems to mine. I may be young but i have gone through a lot in my life, as well as seen people i'm very close to go through the same problems you are. I'm actually really bad at solving my own problems... which is probably why i'm good at solving other peoples.
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x333333 RaE aKa LiL sHoRtY
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ok, I've been goin out with this guy for a little over 3 months, he's 16 and he can drive and I'm 15. It's summer so he's always tellin me how he's really buisy, I never see him anymore b/c he says he's always gone... in someways he sounds a little "overly" buisy. He lives like 8 minutes away from me, and he's only come to see me one time ALL summer. When we first started goin out I liked him sooo much that I made the mistake of telling him i would never break up with him... Things aren't working out and I don't feel the same about him, but I don't want to hurt him and I don't know how to break up with him in the right way. I don't want him to think I'm a liar and I regret tellin him that cuz I should have known it wouldn't last forever... What should I do? (link)
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The best advice in life: Dont EVER regret something that once made you smile. And dont EVER regret something because at one point you wanted it. Telling him you would never break up with him was what you wanted and believed, and im sure it made you smile. You cant go back in time.. so dont worry about lying to him. When you tell certain guys you love them, then you break up and hate him... is that lying to him?
It might not make a lot of sense.. but the point is: dont worry about him calling you a liar. But if things arent working out you shouldnt be held down by something you said 3 months ago.
I think you should talk to him. Let him know its not working and that you NEED to see him more often. If he says he cant and gives you a lame ass excuse like OH IM BUSY.. well then the jackass needs to be busy with his GIRLFRIEND.
If nothing works and he STILL isnt around, then tell him you think you should take a break, or tell him you're better off as friends. Let him know that you cant be in a relationship where you barely see the other person.
hope i helped
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Thanx a bunch! I'm gonna talk to him about how he is makin up bad excuses and how if he still likes me he needs to give me better attention!!! Thanx again!! :-)
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