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I'm a girl, and I act like a guy a lot. I also hang around guys all the time..literally. This girl and her friends always ask me, "Are you gay? I think you're gay." And I say something like, "Liking guy things does not determine which gender I like!" And I even called her a fat b*tch (she is fat). She just won't stop.

What do I do?

Say, "Yes. I am gay. Got a problem with that?" (Yes, even if it's not true!) and just move on. Honestly, getting angry at her and calling her names isn't going to solve anything. That just shows that she's getting to you. Smile, laugh it off, and show her that she DOESN'T bother you. It's not you she cares about anyway, it's her own insecurities. There's really nothing else you CAN do about it.

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