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My name's Kendal and i'm 17. I've been through quite alot of stuff, from heart breaks, to messed up parents with drug addictions & not being together, to fights with just about anyone about anything. I'm the youngest of 7 children, 4 brothers & now two sisters. In school I use to be the kind of girl who thought they were better then everyone else, and was the popular bitch who played varsity basketball & softball as a freshman. Alot has changed. After my older sister died things sort of started coming into perspective. And i just wanna help ppl out now. If you need anything about anything. I'm here to talk, help, listen, whatever. I dont judge, and i usually can understand where the ppl are coming from. My lifes had alot of ups and downs and i really just wanna help out. I wish i would of known about this site a few years ago! Currently i have a boyfriend, Chad. And i usually hang out w/ him and my friends after school and on the weekends. I'm super social, and i think easy to talk to. So ask me anything! Btw the user name's from the song, from the tv show; 8th and ocean. If anyone was wondering. ha. MUCH LOVE!
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hi im 13 and my boyfriend is 16 yes i know thats an age gap. well i understand that he likes drinkin and ya i do to sadly. but i dont really do it as much anymore. and he told me staright up he was gonna stop. then he went out and did it again and i asked him why he said that when he didnt mean to and he said because he just wanted to. well sometimes i feel like he would rather be drinking and other stuff then rather being with me like beer is more important. how can i stop myself from feeling this way.
p.s he ditches me to go do that stuff
It's def. normal to feel that way. And at 16 the boy really just wants to have fun i bet. I dont know how close you are, but you should tell him that. Tell him that it feels like that, and that since your not really into that kind of stuff anymore its awkward. Go to those kind of things w/ him, and just dont drink. Keep him busy, and he prob. wont either. And if he does tell him straight up that its annoying how he would ditch you for beer, and that maybe this isnt gunna work out. 13 & 16 is a big gap at age. And i hate to say it but i dont know if you'll last that long. I mean its def fun, but if thats how he is, i personally think you could do better.
"If they're not there for you, then they're not worthy of you either"
Well hopefully that helps. Good Luck! :] Much love
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