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Welcome to my advice column. My name is Dawn. First, I assure you I am not like other young people at all. There is nothing about me that is overly special. I have an extreme fear of going back in time, getting stuck there then contracting a disease that's curable now but not curable then, and of being drowned by peacocks. o.0 I have little respect for what hasn't earned it, most of the world is little more than my plaything or a joke to me but what makes it inside my walls is there forever. I was probably tampered with as a child by aliens. Godspeed.
This is an advice column. I have little patients for idiots...
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A: You just did, now I'm all out of answers for today, try again never.
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A: Take a damn test and stop being such a whore.
Q: Does he like me?
A: If you have to ask stupid questions like this, to complete strangers who know neither of you, then I highly doubt it. And if he does, then he's an idiot.
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A: Try growing a brain to think for yourself. You'll never amount to anything if you try to get others to do your homework for you.
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A: You should really learn proper spelling and grammar. It's beyond me how anyone can understand a thing you said.
If you have a serious question, I can be one of the most helpful people you know. I may be only 22, but I have experienced a lot in my life. If I don't know the answer to your delema, I wont pretend to know it and give some random answer that sounded good at the time, I will simply let you know that I don't have the answer, and reffer you to some place that you can find the answer.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and I'm having a few issues with the choices he's making. Now, I need really mature people to answer this. I have always not really liked certain type of guys such as with piercings and tattoos and mohawks and stuff. I fully understand that not ALL of those people are bad. But I have been brought up in a really good family with morals and I want a guy who doesn't look like that. My boyfriend has told me that he is wanting to get a few tattoos and it will be happening very soon. I'm really upset about this, I feel like it's going to change him because he's been changing a lot lately. He's going downhill and I've confronted him with these feelings and he got totally defensive and told me to stop acting like his mom. I admit that I did put my foot down and say that I'm not dealing with it when he told me, but then I tried to keep saying that I'm really worried because tattoos are permanant decisions!
Like I said, I need someone with morals to answer this. I don't want a speech stating that I should just accept him, I do accept him, but tattos are a decision, it doesn't define who he is.
I will rate and let you know what I think of your advice.
Thank you so much in advance
Personally, I think I have great morals. I'm not a big fan of alot of tattoo's either. But it is his decision to make about himself. It really shouldn't have anything to do with you, and if you're trying to make him choose between what he wants to do, and you, then that's being a little unfair. If he's getting a few tattoos in places that might not be seen regularly, like on his shoulder which could be covered up by a shirt, then I don't see what the problem is. However, if he's getting a naked chick tattooed on his forearm, then I would have a problem with it.
Like I said, I'm not normally a big fan of tattoos either, however, I do see that is it a form of art, and it is an expression of one's 'self'. Sure, he might not like the tattoo fifty years down the road, but that's the price he'll have to pay, not you.
My husband wants to get his tongue pierced. Or his eyebrown, and I don't want him to do that. Perhaps I don't because, I'm used to the way he is now, and I'm afraid that if he changes, I love him less. But the truth is, I wont love him less. And if your boyrfiend gets a tattoo, you might not like it at first, but you'll get used to it. I mean, honestly, can you tell me you'll love someone less just because they got ink permenantly placed on them? It's not going to change WHO he is... just his apperance. What is it you love more, him, or his looks?
-Tipsy Gypsy
(Rating: 5) You're right. It's a personal decision, and If he really does end up changing dramatically, then I'll know when it's right to end the relationship. I think I get what you are trying to say. Thanks and God bless you.