hey im a freshmen searching and giving advice so i hope i help those ppl tht r seriously ineed ....i hate ppl who ask for the dumbest advice .......like this one girl who asked wut kind of necklace she should ask her father for on xmas....come on tht is just sick.....
Member Since: December 6, 2005
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Last Update: December 13, 2005
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My brothers a herion addict of 3 years. He is 21 I used to look up to him, alot. Ive never not felt special that i had him. Till I was 10 and realized what he was an addict. over the 3 years, everything been rought. he stolen from family, and me included. Hes been in and out of the house. My parents are a wreck. Will this year he got into a rehab, was clean for 2 months. And then messed up, and took some herion. Got kicked out. Today he went to court & ended up in jail for 30 days. It kills me, hurts me. I almost want to die some days, I need him. I cant leave him. I know when he gets out, he'll be the same. I know it, so dont tell me "After jail it it will get better he need to hit rock bottom" HES been to rock bottom ok? I just need help handlings him. I cant control him, hes 21 my parnets cant either. I need help on how to deal with leaving. (link)
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wow.... i cant say i know how u feel because i dont at all and u cant make him stop the only person tht can is himself and thts if he cares enough about you and your family which im sure he is its just maybe he should go back to rehab and he if doesnt then forget it....if he comes back for money and stuff just ignore him because if you incourage him he will think its all ok with you guys and wont stop..... have you ever had him sit down and talk with your family and you maybe that will work. but i dont be like him and start drugs not only will you suffer but just think about your brother record with the police by now it is ruined no offence....you have to let him go or you and your family will go through twice his pain...i hope your bro is doing alright in jail.......good luck i hope ive halped write back and tell me if it went well
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so me and my best friend went to high school and we met up with one of our elementary friends and she became really close with her again and i felt like i was getting pushed out tho i was becoming friends just not as good with the other girl. So i told them both but gave more crap about it to my best friend and they say that they are making an effort but they still do it. So i was talking to my best friend today and she said that she went to the mall with just the other girl and they went christmas shopping and i got kinda upset when she mentioned that she didn't invite everyone else..cuz im her best friend and now shes makin it seem like we are nto as close..and i accidentally cussed her out i was so upset. What do i do now? i cant even get up the nerve to talk to her. (link)
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i know exactly how you feel. your worried that your starting to lose your best friend well you probably are if you dont start mnaking an effort...... just try to fit in with them talk to them more hang out more give alot to offer..(and i dont mean by gifst) i mean by time friendship a hand in something she needs..... be cool about it you really dont have to be the closests of friends and maybe you should start by calling her and apologizing about your temper that you gave her and ask her out to drink a soda or somthing im sure things will work out.......good luck
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I was really upset about something a guy friend (or so I thought) did to me.
Well I have a mental illness (schizophrenia) and am on a small disablility pension. I don't just sit around on my ass, I volunteer at the food bank and other places to keep me busy.
Well I went to visit my friend at his work one day. And all of a sudden, for no reason at all he starts saying the meanest things to me, like that I was living off the system and wasnt going to better my life. When I started crying and said he was being judgemental he said "you needed to hear this", in the meanest voice.
I havent been back to see him and he hasnt phoned to apologize. I even heard that he has been talking to his friends about me spazzing out.
Why he is being so mean? Do I have a right to be upset or am I overeacting? And should I even give him a second chance? (link)
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what is wrong with this guy........what is his problem....he seriously needs to be slapped a few times in the face then punched....i wonder why you didnt. your not over reacting he is the jerkoff who couldnt keep his mouth shut.. just ignore him and dont talk to him at all . but if it was me and someone was saying all that crap infront of me i would have had him on the ground crying and begging for mercy.....ok well no but i woulkd have made him feel bad from all the stuff i would have said. and he talks about u so what ignore him why should a bunch of words bother you....you will do fine.....good luck
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ok well there is this kid I really like at school . And when I told Him he said he Might like me 2 ! and that he would tell me on monday ! well it is wedsday and i still have NO answer ! so what does that meaN !?!?!?!?! does he like me or not ! HELP ! (link)
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ok i think he is either playing with you or he likes you but is just playing hard to get.........you should go up to him and tell him straight forward that you are not into playing games and that you want the answer and look at him in the eye....well hope i helped
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OK so tomorrow i have lacrosse tryouts, and i know i probably won't make it, but i still will probably get my hopes up too high by the time i try out...is there any way i could make it so im not so disappointed if i dont make it? It'll also make it WAY better if i DO make it if I'm not expecting it hehe (link)
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ok to start things off never bring your hopes up high even if your real good at lacrosse....which you probably are because you will never know when they come crashing down sooo hard you cant breath.......if you make it then congradulations....but if you dont yes you'll be sad but maybe tht just wasnt the sport for you maybe you should try another sport your better at.... well good luck at tryouts
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Hey i am 17 and i have this boyfriend whom i care alot about. he is 19 and last thursday we went through a little problem. his friends tell him he needs to date older women because they are more experience and that they dont make no bull crap. anyways he told me that they make sense but he really cares for me to much and he dont want that to happen. he is going to cancun in 2 weeks and i asked him if we were going to break up when he goes. and he asked me why i asked that. but then thursday he said all thatand he is the kind of person who does not take bull crap and he tells it like it is. but i really care for him alot and dont want us to break up for no reason. well then last night we were on the phone and we were talking about why i asked if ihe wanted to be with me. because saturday i was feeling like he did not want to be with me, and i asked him and then we finally talked. i know i may confuse you but i am confusing myself but what i want to know is how can i get him to talk really serious to me?
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you shouldnt be sensitive with him you should tell him straight forward if he wants older weman then screw......tell him to get lost because if he really liked you then he wouldnt even think of other girls this guy does not diserve you ....you should read your column you seem so worried about this realationship soo much more than him which he can probably already see tht by now so if he wants to see older weman tell him to get lost....and start seeing other guys......well thats all i have for you good luck
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what are some good things to ask for for christmas ecause i want some things but like my dad asks me and i dont really know what i want i want a tiffanys necklace but i dont wanna seem like a spoiled stuck up priss so im not gonna sk but i need some good things to ask for (link)
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wow you came online to a advice website which people ask when they are ineed of serious help and here you are asking about weather or not you should ask your dad for a necklace........wait im still in shock......ok im back what is wrong with you "i dont wanna seem like a spoiled stuck up"....a little later there i mean come on people come here for help like they are hitting themselves or pregnacy but obiously your is wayyy important because you dont know what kind of tiffany's necklace you want....pooor you i feel so bad..........
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i recently got some fish one is a angel fish and another one is a big orange one i dont know what it is called! but anyways my dad just bought this air pump thing and i put it in the 10 gallon tank! and it seems to scare the fish now. and it seems like they dont have much room. i dont want them to be cluttered but i dont want them to die either! any advise on how to take care of this problem!? anything will help! thanx i rate 5 to good answers!
*KMR* (link)
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hmmmmm maybe you should talk to your dad about the tank and how its hurting the fish.......maybe he will understand or maybe u guys should take the tank somewhere else hope i helped in a way
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