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okay so i have a boyfriend named aj and me and him havent been together that long, almost a month. the third time i met him i stayed the night at his house, and dumped my ex of 5months for him, and he was such an awesome guy at first and then things went down hill. im grounded for a month but i have the computer and phone back, and he's grounded for a month, no phone or computer, and he lives like an hour away so i only meet him every once in a while. is this relationship worth it? and if it is, how can i make it work? also im a big flirt. Just cant help it. (link)
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I suppose it's impossible to decide whether or not the relationship is worth it when you aren't in it. A few questions:
Do you know if the fact that your a big flirt bothers or would bother him?
Is keeping up such a long distant relationship interfering with school or work?
Are there any guys that are potential boyfriends near you or do you find yourself thinking of someone else more?
Do you find yourself drifting apart from the uncontrolable distance and time apart from being grounded?
Most importantly, can you see yourself as fine without him?
If a lot of these are yes, then I would strongly consider a break. If not, then the relationship is definitely worth it.
In my honest opinion, I think most relationships, especially those at a late high school or college level which I imagine this is, are doomed to have a ton of problems when they're long distance relationships. It's a time in one's life when they shouldn't allow themselves to be devoted to someone else. If they are, choices are generally made for the benefit of the relationship instead of the benefit of the individual.
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