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Hey, I'm Samm and I'm 15-year-old freshman at Downingtown East High School. I've got a pretty average teenage life, except I'm in no way your average person. I doubt you'll ever meet someone exactly like me.



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Ok well I am depressed and have started becoming anerxic over it. It all started with my bf {of course a guy lol}, anyway he loved his ex gf, {but he doesnt now and broke it off with her and is now with me} and he keeps giving me compliments he gave her and idk if their genuine he says they are, but why would he give me the exact same ones! I find it pathetic. Then, after I talk about this we get in a small fight and make up well then he went to the movies alone with two girls, one he dated! I wasnt even invited or told about it, oh and since I found this out I've been trying to call, but hmmm seams he doesn't know how to call someone back! Anyway I don't wanna get used by this guy what should I do, cause I really love him and don't understand why'd he'd rather go alone with those two girls and not me and is avoiding me. I'll give 5's to anyone who makes me feel better.

Depression and anorexia usually come hand in hand, but from what you are saying, I don't think you are actually depressed. You sound like you're just sad. Depression stretches out for months and, in some cases, years. As for anorexia, that is a disease. People just don't get anorexic out of nowhere. So first of all, cut the drama. As for this compliment business... most guys are brainless and have no way with words. Cut him some slack! And then for the movies thing.. well.. I've gone to the movies with a boy who was taken with only girls. It's not that big of a deal. We just didn't like the guy's girlfriend. Maybe those girls just don't like you and didn't want to invite you. Your boyfriend isn't the only one to blame. I understand your sadness, but you've got to decide if this foolish boy's games are worth it to you.

Sorry for sounding harsh, but I hope I helped.

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(Rating: 3) thanks, but i'm friends with those two girls, and this guy is really good with words, thats how he uses girls and I have been depressed for a while and my anorexia is partly of him and bc I hate how I look, I'm not being dramatic cause he freaks out if I do so much as talk on the phone with a boy
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