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I just am not sure what is wrong...
Ok well I am depressed and have started becoming anerxic over it. It all started with my bf {of course a guy lol}, anyway he loved his ex gf, {but he doesnt now and broke it off with her and is now with me} and he keeps giving me compliments he gave her and idk if their genuine he says they are, but why would he give me the exact same ones! I find it pathetic. Then, after I talk about this we get in a small fight and make up well then he went to the movies alone with two girls, one he dated! I wasnt even invited or told about it, oh and since I found this out I've been trying to call, but hmmm seams he doesn't know how to call someone back! Anyway I don't wanna get used by this guy what should I do, cause I really love him and don't understand why'd he'd rather go alone with those two girls and not me and is avoiding me. I'll give 5's to anyone who makes me feel better.
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rachel :- first of all you need to stop being anorexic about this. being anorexic about anything is not good. and then he may be genuine about these comments. you never know. he may just like the same things about you and his ex. and then about the movie thing ... just because he goes to the movies with someone doesnt mean there is anything going on between them. sometimes people just like to go to the movies with their friends, even when they have a girlfriend or a boyfriend. if he doesnt call you back then talk to him face-to-face. i really hope this helps you.
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Well if hes in love with you he should/would have told you... so obviously he is a little confused... and No guy is worth hurting yourself over.. so start eating! and about the calling back thing... i think like only 50% or less guys call a girl back....
Hope I helped,
Jamie*
P.S. if you need someone to talk to you can E-mail me @ lovergirl2208@yahoo.com!
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Depression and anorexia usually come hand in hand, but from what you are saying, I don't think you are actually depressed. You sound like you're just sad. Depression stretches out for months and, in some cases, years. As for anorexia, that is a disease. People just don't get anorexic out of nowhere. So first of all, cut the drama. As for this compliment business... most guys are brainless and have no way with words. Cut him some slack! And then for the movies thing.. well.. I've gone to the movies with a boy who was taken with only girls. It's not that big of a deal. We just didn't like the guy's girlfriend. Maybe those girls just don't like you and didn't want to invite you. Your boyfriend isn't the only one to blame. I understand your sadness, but you've got to decide if this foolish boy's games are worth it to you.
Sorry for sounding harsh, but I hope I helped.
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